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Post by bibbinut on May 28, 2013 8:13:27 GMT -8
Your roommate sounds to me like one of those shape shifting creatures in the movie Sleepwalkers. Cats hated those creatures. I'll sic my cats on her for you. Maybe, that'll get her to move out fast!
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Post by Ameline on May 28, 2013 8:48:17 GMT -8
Hide her stuff on her and then send her a post it saying 'back back'. Not much you can do about her though. You can't force her to leave, only the landlord can.
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 28, 2013 8:56:45 GMT -8
Yeah, I'm not trying to force her to leave NOW, only when the rental agreement is up in September and a new lease has been signed by not her.
Although if she wanted to leave now that's totally fine by me.
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Post by bibbinut on May 28, 2013 8:59:43 GMT -8
kristabelle89Keeping my fingers and paws crossed for you that she moves out soon. Growwwllll. Good luck to U! >^..^<
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Post by Celeste on May 28, 2013 9:10:44 GMT -8
kristabelle89, I'd start collecting the post-its. Once your good roommates and yourself have signed the lease, cover a table with her post-its. Show it to her, then tell her you've all noticed that she doesn't seem very happy with the rest of you. For the sake of everyone, you all feel the best course of action is that you part company. Since you and the others get along fine, she is the odd one out and that leaves her with the responsibility of finding a new place. Remind her that if she insists on staying, the living situation will only get worse. Be sympathetic but firm.
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 28, 2013 10:23:03 GMT -8
kristabelle89, I'd start collecting the post-its. Once your good roommates and yourself have signed the lease, cover a table with her post-its. Show it to her, then tell her you've all noticed that she doesn't seem very happy with the rest of you. For the sake of everyone, you all feel the best course of action is that you part company. Since you and the others get along fine, she is the odd one out and that leaves her with the responsibility of finding a new place. Remind her that if she insists on staying, the living situation will only get worse. Be sympathetic but firm. I like this one. I have taken photos of all the post-its she's left around the house, but from now on I'll just keep them.
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 28, 2013 19:05:31 GMT -8
HEY GUYS,
Big update:
So today she tells my roommate Kate and I that she needs to talk to us. She then proceeds to tell us that we have 60 days to move out, and that she had spoken to our landlord about this and he had said it was okay. So of course I sit there in shock for a moment, then I ask her when she talked to him, and she said "oh last week". That is when I realize there is something very very fishy about this situation, as I had spoken to our landlord 3 weeks ago, and AGAIN on Sunday so I knew that the lease was going to be signed with my name and not hers. So I go to the source - the landlord. Called him and he invited me to come to his house to talk (he lives just down the street).
He never talked to her about having us move out in August. She's a beeping liar. She claims my name wasn't on the lease, but I went and check with him and it was. So basically, I pulled the big guns, and showed him the photo of the ripped off thermostat on the wall, plus the post it notes. He apologized that I had to live with someone like her, and that he will be informing her this week that her lease will be terminated and not renewed with her. We also handed in my new roommates applications and verbally agreed to the lease, which he is writing up this week.
I am just feeling this white hot fury inside and I just wish I knew what flew up her butt and died miserably that she thought she could actually get away with something like this. Seriously, WHO DOES THIS?
Oh also fyi I live in Boston. You are not getting a lease for August 1st in Boston in June, it just will not happen, unless it's a piece of crap in a horrible area.
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Post by Ameline on May 28, 2013 21:12:03 GMT -8
HEY GUYS, Big update: So today she tells my roommate Kate and I that she needs to talk to us. She then proceeds to tell us that we have 60 days to move out, and that she had spoken to our landlord about this and he had said it was okay. So of course I sit there in shock for a moment, then I ask her when she talked to him, and she said "oh last week". That is when I realize there is something very very fishy about this situation, as I had spoken to our landlord 3 weeks ago, and AGAIN on Sunday so I knew that the lease was going to be signed with my name and not hers. So I go to the source - the landlord. Called him and he invited me to come to his house to talk (he lives just down the street). He never talked to her about having us move out in August. She's a beeping liar. She claims my name wasn't on the lease, but I went and check with him and it was. So basically, I pulled the big guns, and showed him the photo of the ripped off thermostat on the wall, plus the post it notes. He apologized that I had to live with someone like her, and that he will be informing her this week that her lease will be terminated and not renewed with her. We also handed in my new roommates applications and verbally agreed to the lease, which he is writing up this week. I am just feeling this white hot fury inside and I just wish I knew what flew up her butt and died miserably that she thought she could actually get away with something like this. Seriously, WHO DOES THIS? Oh also fyi I live in Boston. You are not getting a lease for August 1st in Boston in June, it just will not happen, unless it's a piece of crap in a horrible area. At least you were smart enough not to take her word for it and asked the landlord. I was actually a little sympathetic at first just because she has a mental disorder but now any sympathy i had is gone. She just sounds like a mean spoiled brat. I'm glad she is getting the boot. You should of showed your landlord this stuff earlier then you guys wouldn't of had to put up with her for so long.
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Post by Chris on May 28, 2013 22:08:13 GMT -8
HEY GUYS, Big update: So today she tells my roommate Kate and I that she needs to talk to us. She then proceeds to tell us that we have 60 days to move out, and that she had spoken to our landlord about this and he had said it was okay. So of course I sit there in shock for a moment, then I ask her when she talked to him, and she said "oh last week". That is when I realize there is something very very fishy about this situation, as I had spoken to our landlord 3 weeks ago, and AGAIN on Sunday so I knew that the lease was going to be signed with my name and not hers. So I go to the source - the landlord. Called him and he invited me to come to his house to talk (he lives just down the street). He never talked to her about having us move out in August. She's a beeping liar. She claims my name wasn't on the lease, but I went and check with him and it was. So basically, I pulled the big guns, and showed him the photo of the ripped off thermostat on the wall, plus the post it notes. He apologized that I had to live with someone like her, and that he will be informing her this week that her lease will be terminated and not renewed with her. We also handed in my new roommates applications and verbally agreed to the lease, which he is writing up this week. I am just feeling this white hot fury inside and I just wish I knew what flew up her butt and died miserably that she thought she could actually get away with something like this. Seriously, WHO DOES THIS? Oh also fyi I live in Boston. You are not getting a lease for August 1st in Boston in June, it just will not happen, unless it's a piece of crap in a horrible area. Heeyyyy, you live near me! I live just south of you, right off the highway in Braintree. And congrats, I'm glad you were finally able to get rid of this pest.
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Post by FelipeG on May 29, 2013 1:44:13 GMT -8
Actually just looked up Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (not quite OCD, they basically think their obsessive actions aren't obsessive but normal). The ones she exhibit are in bold. 1. feelings of excessive doubt and caution; 2. preoccupation with details, rules, lists, order, organization or schedule; (post-its and cleaning schedules)3. perfectionism that interferes with task completion; 4. excessive conscientiousness, scrupulousness, and undue preoccupation with productivity to the exclusion of pleasure and interpersonal relationships (she has a boyfriend but he rarely spends the night)5. excessive pedantry and adherence to social conventions (she has a habit of putting people down or not wanting to do things because they are too far or would take too much time from her).6. rigidity and stubbornness; (heat, again going back to the post-its)7. unreasonable insistence by the individual that others submit exactly to his or her way of doing things, or unreasonable reluctance to allow others to do things (the heat WILL be set at 60 degrees and there's no compromising, hiding my bowls, ect.)8. intrusion of insistent and unwelcome thoughts or impulses. (well I'm not in her brain so...) That's five out of eight. Can I send her some recommended therapists? Just force her to watch every single episode of TBBT. Point at Sheldon and let her know that she behaves just like him -or worse. The thermostat thing sounds almost like some sort of anger management or something that makes her feel like she HAS to be in control of everything.
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Post by Former Member on May 29, 2013 3:22:43 GMT -8
Actually just looked up Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (not quite OCD, they basically think their obsessive actions aren't obsessive but normal). The ones she exhibit are in bold. 1. feelings of excessive doubt and caution; 2. preoccupation with details, rules, lists, order, organization or schedule; (post-its and cleaning schedules)3. perfectionism that interferes with task completion; 4. excessive conscientiousness, scrupulousness, and undue preoccupation with productivity to the exclusion of pleasure and interpersonal relationships (she has a boyfriend but he rarely spends the night)5. excessive pedantry and adherence to social conventions (she has a habit of putting people down or not wanting to do things because they are too far or would take too much time from her).6. rigidity and stubbornness; (heat, again going back to the post-its)7. unreasonable insistence by the individual that others submit exactly to his or her way of doing things, or unreasonable reluctance to allow others to do things (the heat WILL be set at 60 degrees and there's no compromising, hiding my bowls, ect.)8. intrusion of insistent and unwelcome thoughts or impulses. (well I'm not in her brain so...) Finally, someone who actually 'gets' the difference!
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 29, 2013 4:56:58 GMT -8
HEY GUYS, Big update: So today she tells my roommate Kate and I that she needs to talk to us. She then proceeds to tell us that we have 60 days to move out, and that she had spoken to our landlord about this and he had said it was okay. So of course I sit there in shock for a moment, then I ask her when she talked to him, and she said "oh last week". That is when I realize there is something very very fishy about this situation, as I had spoken to our landlord 3 weeks ago, and AGAIN on Sunday so I knew that the lease was going to be signed with my name and not hers. So I go to the source - the landlord. Called him and he invited me to come to his house to talk (he lives just down the street). He never talked to her about having us move out in August. She's a beeping liar. She claims my name wasn't on the lease, but I went and check with him and it was. So basically, I pulled the big guns, and showed him the photo of the ripped off thermostat on the wall, plus the post it notes. He apologized that I had to live with someone like her, and that he will be informing her this week that her lease will be terminated and not renewed with her. We also handed in my new roommates applications and verbally agreed to the lease, which he is writing up this week. I am just feeling this white hot fury inside and I just wish I knew what flew up her butt and died miserably that she thought she could actually get away with something like this. Seriously, WHO DOES THIS? Oh also fyi I live in Boston. You are not getting a lease for August 1st in Boston in June, it just will not happen, unless it's a piece of crap in a horrible area. Heeyyyy, you live near me! I live just south of you, right off the highway in Braintree. And congrats, I'm glad you were finally able to get rid of this pest. Heck yeah! Love the Dave and Busters near you And yeah I'm still really really angry that she tried to pull this last night, but I'm glad I saw through it and went straight to the landlord, who confirmed she was lying and now knows that she's crazy.
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 29, 2013 4:57:40 GMT -8
Actually just looked up Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (not quite OCD, they basically think their obsessive actions aren't obsessive but normal). The ones she exhibit are in bold. 1. feelings of excessive doubt and caution; 2. preoccupation with details, rules, lists, order, organization or schedule; (post-its and cleaning schedules)3. perfectionism that interferes with task completion; 4. excessive conscientiousness, scrupulousness, and undue preoccupation with productivity to the exclusion of pleasure and interpersonal relationships (she has a boyfriend but he rarely spends the night)5. excessive pedantry and adherence to social conventions (she has a habit of putting people down or not wanting to do things because they are too far or would take too much time from her).6. rigidity and stubbornness; (heat, again going back to the post-its)7. unreasonable insistence by the individual that others submit exactly to his or her way of doing things, or unreasonable reluctance to allow others to do things (the heat WILL be set at 60 degrees and there's no compromising, hiding my bowls, ect.)8. intrusion of insistent and unwelcome thoughts or impulses. (well I'm not in her brain so...) That's five out of eight. Can I send her some recommended therapists? Just force her to watch every single episode of TBBT. Point at Sheldon and let her know that she behaves just like him -or worse. The thermostat thing sounds almost like some sort of anger management or something that makes her feel like she HAS to be in control of everything. Funnily enough she loves TBBT, maybe she doesn't recognize that she is exactly like Sheldon. She's just crazy
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 29, 2013 4:58:51 GMT -8
Actually just looked up Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (not quite OCD, they basically think their obsessive actions aren't obsessive but normal). The ones she exhibit are in bold. 1. feelings of excessive doubt and caution; 2. preoccupation with details, rules, lists, order, organization or schedule; (post-its and cleaning schedules)3. perfectionism that interferes with task completion; 4. excessive conscientiousness, scrupulousness, and undue preoccupation with productivity to the exclusion of pleasure and interpersonal relationships (she has a boyfriend but he rarely spends the night)5. excessive pedantry and adherence to social conventions (she has a habit of putting people down or not wanting to do things because they are too far or would take too much time from her).6. rigidity and stubbornness; (heat, again going back to the post-its)7. unreasonable insistence by the individual that others submit exactly to his or her way of doing things, or unreasonable reluctance to allow others to do things (the heat WILL be set at 60 degrees and there's no compromising, hiding my bowls, ect.)8. intrusion of insistent and unwelcome thoughts or impulses. (well I'm not in her brain so...) Finally, someone who actually 'gets' the difference! Haha yes I studied psychology in school actually with a focus in abnormal and personality disorders since my father has one (which enhanced my interest). I knew she didn't have OCD because they KNOW what they're doing is crazy, and she clearly doesn't.
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Post by kristabelle89 on May 29, 2013 9:00:38 GMT -8
I'm still seething over the little stunt she pulled. She clearly thinks my other roommate and I are in fact stupid and would just go along with her plan and not fact check. I used to feel bad in thinking of ways to kick her out, but now I'm looking forward to it.
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