Your Life...Your decisions..:).

[Oranjy]

Alot of us here have completly different lifestyles, we live in different time zones, we have jobs and are parents, we are kids, grandads and people of many walks of life.
I'm sure all of us fantasize about living in other countries, having wild adventures or maybe just living a boring simple life. There are those who are satisfied with their life how it is, but nether the less we all of us proboably think about our past and ask the questions in our head;
What would have happened? Where would I be now? Who would I know? .... if I had done that.

Now to my point, how often do you ever ask yourselfs these questions and do you ever get really sad about it?.. when you're thinking OMG, I missed my chance.

Well, I 'spose we could think that all the time, but then we are always learning...okay I'm off to eat some food, this rants tired me out

[Ghorta™]

Actually..................never

[The Dark Knight]

Well then TheGrimReaper, you're not a person then. Either that or you've never taken any decisions in your life.

Everyone has such thoughts, we all make decisions and at times they are tough cdecisions where both the options can get us good results, and we take the one which sounds right at the time, later of course we might think otherwise.

Anyway, that's a part of life.

[Oranjy]

dagrimreaper2 said:

Actually..................never

Really...It's not just me...

avtar said:

Well then TheGrimReaper, you're not a person then. Either that or you've never taken any decisions in your life.

Everyone has such thoughts, we all make decisions and at times they are tough cdecisions where both the options can get us good results, and we take the one which sounds right at the time, later of course we might think otherwise.

Anyway, that's a part of life.

Ye, you're right....thats who we are, and Instead of thinking I might have been.....blady blah...

We should look at ourselfs and think because of that, look where I am now, I'm alive, can eat, have a roof, and am happy ......hopefully anyway.

[Enchant]

some of you all arnt even old enough to have a chance to ask that question....you have just begun to live your lives....you shouldnt be worrying about past...when there so much more to look forward to in your future....

there might be some what ifs in some cases...but for the most part.....dont regret , learn from past mistakes and go forward...its pointless to think of what if?....

most people are not satisfied with there lives...weather it be wishing they had more money, someone tio share their lives with ...or what ever.... instead of dwelling , dream........


EDIT: ooo...goes into personal quotes....Instead of Dwelling, Dream.....

[cellDamage]

im forever making decisions and stressing about them afterwards, its being human aint it?

i get sad when i realise that i've missed something.. either whether it was something ages ago i could have done differently, or just not acted like a delicate flower 5 minutes ago..

im kinda content at the moment, not particularily stressed by anything, just riding out the storm.

[Oranjy]

enchant said:

some of you all arnt even old enough to have a chance to ask that question....you have just begun to live your lives....you shouldnt be worrying about past...when there so much more to look forward to in your future....

there might be some what ifs in some cases...but for the most part.....dont regret , learn from past mistakes and go forward...its pointless to think of what if?....

most people are not satisfied with there lives...weather it be wishing they had more money, someone tio share their lives with ...or what ever.... instead of dwelling , dream........


EDIT: ooo...goes into personal quotes....Instead of Dwelling, Dream.....

I'm sure glad our brains have the ability to dream and create hypothetical worlds. So we can escape to something we control when life gets out it.

nitehawk said:

im forever making decisions and stressing about them afterwards, its being human aint it?

i get sad when i realise that i've missed something.. either whether it was something ages ago i could have done differently, or just not acted like a delicate flower 5 minutes ago..

im kinda content at the moment, not particularily stressed by anything, just riding out the storm.

Yeh, when we see that something distressing is heppening to others, that can make us see that while we are stressing out about a miniscule thing that has no real meaning while others are suffering, it enables us to see that most of out problems mean nothing..