Post by Strata Spartan on Sept 22, 2011 15:47:06 GMT -8
I know a buttload of do's and don'ts; however, by any stretch of the imagination do I know all there is to know. That would just be conceited. Still, I will share with you with what I have acquired.
For all of you guys out there, here is the age old question that you have probably spent countless hours thinking about.
Why does the general population of ladies in the U.S. like to get into relationships with rebels, badboys, douchebags etc?
Here is my answer that slapped me in the face like 3 years ago.
I will put it in italics for you.
Two main syllables.
Backbone.
This isn't the only thing, but I do believe it is the main thing. A lady (to a degree) doesn't like to see there man or nice guy get pushed around verbally or physically by anyone no matter who it is. If that happens, the girl starts to not feel insecure which isn't good. They will believe that you can't safeguard them from all hurt, harm, and danger when it counts. This is why they run to the quote unquote "A hole" that just so happens to not let anyone push them around. Then they think they can change them to there liking clothes wise, language wise, etc. which works sometimes. Other times, no. Just no.
So you as the individual have to change this about you. Don't go looking for an altercation. Just have this "swagger like aura" (best way I could put it ^^) about you that gives off signals that you're not about to let anyone walk all over you. Be very confident in yourself mainly when you speak. Speak and walk with confidence, without being cocky. In addition, if the altercation does happen and it can't be avoided, then FIRE off salvos to your aggressor and make sure they know never to get on your bad side or they will regret it.
There are other things too for you to get a girl's attention. Anything from being adventurous to holding an interesting conversation for awhile.
And that's all I got.
Anyone wanna add what they've learned from there experiences?
For all of you guys out there, here is the age old question that you have probably spent countless hours thinking about.
Why does the general population of ladies in the U.S. like to get into relationships with rebels, badboys, douchebags etc?
Here is my answer that slapped me in the face like 3 years ago.
I will put it in italics for you.
Two main syllables.
Backbone.
This isn't the only thing, but I do believe it is the main thing. A lady (to a degree) doesn't like to see there man or nice guy get pushed around verbally or physically by anyone no matter who it is. If that happens, the girl starts to not feel insecure which isn't good. They will believe that you can't safeguard them from all hurt, harm, and danger when it counts. This is why they run to the quote unquote "A hole" that just so happens to not let anyone push them around. Then they think they can change them to there liking clothes wise, language wise, etc. which works sometimes. Other times, no. Just no.
So you as the individual have to change this about you. Don't go looking for an altercation. Just have this "swagger like aura" (best way I could put it ^^) about you that gives off signals that you're not about to let anyone walk all over you. Be very confident in yourself mainly when you speak. Speak and walk with confidence, without being cocky. In addition, if the altercation does happen and it can't be avoided, then FIRE off salvos to your aggressor and make sure they know never to get on your bad side or they will regret it.
There are other things too for you to get a girl's attention. Anything from being adventurous to holding an interesting conversation for awhile.
And that's all I got.
Anyone wanna add what they've learned from there experiences?
