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Post by STLUEE on Jul 19, 2020 13:21:56 GMT -8
What bothers me is when they delete their account from my forum and other friends forums. Joins others, without a message why, they chose to leave.
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Ghost
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Post by Ghost on Aug 18, 2020 11:47:27 GMT -8
It can definitely be frustrating, but i try not to take it personally and just assume they've got something going on that I don't know about and are just trying to take care of themselves as best they can.
I had a forum years ago that I was invested in, and had made a lot of friends on, but when my mom died suddenly/unexpectedly I had to leave because there was too much going on for me offline (and the subject matter of the forum made me think about my mom too much). I managed to say a quick goodbye/give a quick explanation before leaving but doing that was really hard and taxing. So when people just leave with no explanation I try to just remember that sometimes saying goodbye is hard and if someone already has a lot on their plate it might just be a little too much.
Generally, I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and assume they're doing their best to deal with whatever situation is before them.
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Post by loverofcatsandfooty on Aug 29, 2020 15:18:11 GMT -8
If you choose to mess around with others they will leave on you.
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Post by dustys on Aug 30, 2020 4:43:34 GMT -8
Thank you all for giving feedback on my topic
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My full name is Trab Pu Kcip.
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Post by Trab on Sept 21, 2020 9:59:00 GMT -8
It can be frustrating when a lifetime member, a frequent poster (or one of our mods) leave and never come back, but I won't take it to heart, as I know that they have lives offline, as well as online.
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Post by Former Member on Oct 25, 2020 2:33:19 GMT -8
What bothers me is when they delete their account from my forum and other friends forums. Joins others, without a message why, they chose to leave. I agree about leaving a message and telling you why they decided to leave. In the past, if I did leave a forum, I always sent a message to the admin, telling them the reason I was leaving. And it had never anything to do with "falling out". Neither do I have any falling out with my members, even those that haven't been on in ages. Sometimes they come back, send my a PM, and apologize for not being there, and sometimes they just stay away. I have had one person, who had been a kind of "friend" on another forum, join my forum, post a lot, and then all of a sudden stopped posting, and in the end deleted herself. And yes, I felt hurt, because we communicated on that other forum about different things, and here she is, deleting herself and her posts (which caused a slight confusion with the rest of the posts in those threads), and never said why she left.
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