How do you feel alone...

[CrazyBoy]

How do you feel being alone completely at home, work, etc ?

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When I moved out I wanted to be alone, now that I got it you dont really understand how depressing it is. I'm going back to work soon after being in a deep depression that wasnt me. I had to force myself to believe I liked my job when I hated it. But looking on the bright side I was around coworkers I could laugh with and joke around like typical guy stuff. If you live by yourself talk to neighbors even if they seem crazy and insane you may get along well with each other.

The only person causing you to feel alone is you. Even internet friends can make you feel better.

[CrazyBoy]

Yes It's only me who can make myself alone I agree

[📚 Dianne 📚]

Feb 8, 2020 3:06:21 GMT -8 CrazyBoy said:

How do you feel being alone completely at home, work, etc ?

I don't know if you would count my cats  as making me 'not alone' but even with them I feel alone.   Sometimes it's frightening to me when I hear unusual noises in the house or around the property, sometimes it's depressing, but most of the time I love it. I'm a reader so the quiet is exquisite.

But remember like  User 180565 is taking donation said, with the internet you have people at your finger tips. And that is exactly what I do when I get too lonely or depressed.

[CrazyBoy]

Feb 8, 2020 4:40:17 GMT -8 📚 Dianne 📚 said:

Feb 8, 2020 3:06:21 GMT -8 CrazyBoy said:

How do you feel being alone completely at home, work, etc ?

I don't know if you would count my cats  as making me 'not alone' but even with them I feel alone.   Sometimes it's frightening to me when I hear unusual noises in the house or around the property, sometimes it's depressing, but most of the time I love it. I'm a reader so the quiet is exquisite.

But remember like  User 180565 is taking donation said, with the internet you have people at your finger tips. And that is exactly what I do when I get too lonely or depressed.

I didn't count them
I am scared from noises also but I don't if it's from the house I live in or in the house below us

[wildmaven]

I moved out at the age of 16, so I learned early how to be alone. Now, at age 55, I still take an occasional vacation totally by myself just to recharge my soul. No TV, no internet, just me rediscovering the good in the world.

[CrazyBoy]

Feb 8, 2020 4:49:34 GMT -8 wildmaven said:

I moved out at the age of 16, so I learned early how to be alone. Now, at age 55, I still take an occasional vacation totally by myself just to recharge my soul. No TV, no internet, just me rediscovering the good in the world.

Nice wildmaven You're a super hero !

[bigballofyarn]

CrazyBoy,

When you are alone, sounds will scare you more because you can't blame them on people in the house. My house creeks, moans, cracks, and sometimes it sounds like the water is running when no one is here except myself. These things are normal though. Every major appliance in the house makes noise. I also become more aware of sounds my body makes.

I love being alone though. I like having privacy. I like being able to daydream or work without the fear of interruption. Being alone allows me the freedom to relax, think, work, and enjoy being myself. I enjoy having privacy, even if it's while doing menial activities.

Some people enjoy solitude, while others enjoy crowds. I'm the type of person who would enjoy living alone in a log cabin on my own mountain. I could never live somewhere like Manhattan because there are more people living in a block than I would care to see in a square mile.

[CrazyBoy]

bigballofyarn

Don't forget that you have "Owen" in the house

[bigballofyarn]

Feb 8, 2020 6:20:11 GMT -8 CrazyBoy said:

bigballofyarn

Don't forget that you have "Owen" in the house

Pets are welcome.  He's very tiny, quiet, and doesn't interrupt my work. I think he has parties when I leave the house though.

[CrazyBoy]

Feb 8, 2020 6:25:16 GMT -8 bigballofyarn said:

Feb 8, 2020 6:20:11 GMT -8 CrazyBoy said:

bigballofyarn

Don't forget that you have "Owen" in the house

Pets are welcome.  He's very tiny, quiet, and doesn't interrupt my work. I think he has parties when I leave the house though.

Parties with who ? Lol
I'm now alone and the phone can be stopped in anytime

[Beckea]

I get spooked with noises as well when my husband is away but really if the weather agrees with me -- I actually enjoy being alone -- I am not totally alone though I have two boys and a girl so no issues. But I love thunderstorms but if anything scratches against the roof or whatever yeah you bet I feel like I am in a Stephen King's novel. But yeah I understand that. Your mind can play games with you. Especially watching a scary movie while everyone is away.  

[Former Member]

I love enjoying my own company.

Can do what i want, when i want and dont have to explain what im doing or even why im doing what ever im doing.

Yesterday i spent the day at work all on my own in the office and was so peaceful and no mythering lol

[CrazyBoy]

Feb 8, 2020 22:46:09 GMT -8 Beckea said:

I get spooked with noises as well when my husband is away but really if the weather agrees with me -- I actually enjoy being alone -- I am not totally alone though I have two boys and a girl so no issues. But I love thunderstorms but if anything scratches against the roof or whatever yeah you bet I feel like I am in a Stephen King's novel. But yeah I understand that. Your mind can play games with you. Especially watching a scary movie while everyone is away.  

Yes my mind do. Also some classmates are playing scaring videos in front of me, what if your daughter/sons go together to school ? 

Feb 9, 2020 0:00:22 GMT -8 Dave B said:

I love enjoying my own company.

Can do what i want, when i want and dont have to explain what im doing or even why im doing what ever im doing.

Yesterday i spent the day at work all on my own in the office and was so peaceful and no mythering lol

I enjoy this also, xD

[Alex R Jamison]

Feb 8, 2020 6:26:22 GMT -8 CrazyBoy said:

Feb 8, 2020 6:25:16 GMT -8 bigballofyarn said:

Pets are welcome.  He's very tiny, quiet, and doesn't interrupt my work. I think he has parties when I leave the house though.

Parties with who ? Lol
I'm now alone and the phone can be stopped in anytime

I bet Owen knows all the squirrels and chipmunks outside.